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Why is that? When they do, they go to places where the competition is too high. These are the same types of places where women want to relax, not be hit on over and over again! Or, they get so buried in their phones that they shut the rest of the world out. If you want to meet women, you must stop being so distracted. Make eye contact and smile. Be present and in the moment.
Open your fu-cking mouth! There is more to life than just Tinder and online dating sites. It goes right back to the competition aspect I just mentioned above. Want to avoid chasing women and reeking of desperation? Read below:. Regardless of the day or time, women are out and about, everywhere, attending a whole host of social events from religious functions to volunteer work, shopping trips, etc.
In comparison, the average single man sits right at home, all alone. When it comes to bars and clubs, the reality is most guys and girls do nothing, aside from staring at each other the entire night. Most guys keep trying over and over, and by the end of the night, their he hung down low and they reek of desperation.
Will they see success after the twentieth time? Sure, they might. Think of gentlemen as the hunters and the prowlers. Naturally, women hide from them. Where do they find a safe refuge? In places like the mall, bookstore, coffee shop, and so on. In reality, most of these places are where guys refuse to go on weekend nights. To them, hanging out in these spots equates to one thing: A wasted weekend. Or you can give these places a try and see how just how easy to meet women.
For your sake, I hope you venture out to them with an open mind and start thinking outside of the box when it is time to come up with new ways to meet women. Your flight gets delayed, your layover is too long, or perhaps you arrived a little too early at the airport in advanced. All of which creates boredom. In reality, most people are looking for ways to pass the time; talking is a great way to do that.
Just by being there, you have something in common before you even begin to strike up a conversation. Of course, many are adventurers or simply looking to meet new people along their travels too. Take, for instance, my trip to London. I met a woman from my hometown on my first flight out while waiting in the lounge. On the connecting flight, I met two British girls who sat across from my aisle; both lived in London near my hotel.
On my last flight back home, I met another woman from my hometown who was returning from a vacation in another state. Even if you suck in the communication department, holding a conversation at an airport is perhaps one of the easiest things to do.
They are eager to recommend their best hometown restaurants, bars, attractions etc. When I was pumping out orders for the store, I paid a visit to the post office on a daily basis. Half of the time, there would be a woman my age waiting in line next to me.
In reality, women ship things too. From tech to dog walkers, hikers, knitting and more. You name it, and one probably exists. My neighbors were heavily into that sort of thing years ago, and I was surprised to discover how many events they got invited to. Needless to say, their social circle just by being in the church group was massive. Remember, friends lead to more friends, and yes, more new women too. From co-ed sports like kickball to bars with volleyball matches, there are lots of recreational sports leagues you can participate in or at least go and cheer for and possibly run into Miss Right.
You can always go with the intent of simply interacting with pets who desperately need a human friend for a day. Most, if not all of these places will gladly welcome you with open arms. As a plus, the act alone shows your gentle side to any female you come across. Now, while you might think most volunteers are older, retired cat-ladies, the statement is only partially true. In reality, there are a lot of younger women who volunteer, including college students. The majority of these shelters and recuse places host fundraising events, dog walks, and small gatherings throughout the month.
The truth is, there are a lot of different organizations that value your time. I could go on forever here. Of course, there are other ways to volunteer that are outside the box. Consider teaching a self-defense class to women and girls. Aka, teaching tech skills at GirlCodeIt, or even photography, cooking, graphic de classes at local female meetups.
Walk the dog go to a dog park. Let your kid roam around the playground. If you have neither of those two, go for a jog. Pull the bicycle out of the garage and go for a ride. Kick a soccer ball around the field; shoot some hoops.
During workdays, skip the break room, leave the office, and go order lunch at a casual restaurant; sit at the bar counter. When I worked downtown, I made it a habit to eat at all the local hipster places for lunch. A lot of women were doing the exact same thing as I was. Yes, women eat alone too! The truth is, a fair were from out of town, and quite lonely while looking for companionship in the city. Of course, consider what happens when you place a to-go order… Where do you sit and wait?
The bar. Remember, over the period of a lunch rush hour, ten, twenty, or more women could sit next to you; either to dine in or pick up a carryout order. Most women are interior deers by heart. Best of all, there are so many objects of curiosity, aka props to start a conversation over. You can find some of the best bachelor pad decor and furniture in the world.
Go to quaint coffee shops where things are quieter, and women can be found chatting amongst their friends. I hate nightclubs. Not that kind. Whole Foods and Target often have the best selection. Most women work long hours during the week and put off grocery shopping until the weekend. The truth is, plenty of women both old and young, go there on weekends to checking out and reading new books. Just like waiting in line at the grocery store, a woman may be standing next to you. If you want to take it a step further, go see a chick flick. The moment you walk out of the theatre, the halls will be packed with women, most of which will be eager to talk about the movie.
Once you decide to go, you need to decide on what your focus is going to be. Are you going to be the fun, social guy? Your cool, confident, and natural self? If you look like you are having a good time, women are more likely to approach you to talk to you. If you act shy and awkward at the wedding, you may actually repel women. Women are naturally attracted to confident men so walk into that wedding solo with your head held high and see what happens! Find out when the next how to meet women or similar seminar is. The seminar leader will be pumping all these women with buried souls up.
She will be opening up like a flower! Fast forward, and all her friends will be clapping and cheering her on when she tells them she met you. Laundromats are often referred to as the secret goldmines of picking up women. Every week, hundreds of women can flood into laundromats and are offering you the perfect opportunity to approach them without seeming creepy — just make sure you actually have your own laundry to do.
The most famous first liner at a laundromat to break the ice? Take, for instance, a medieval festival, which is fun for just about any guy old and young. Remember, there are all sorts of different themes, not just the classic festival most of us tend to think of. You can also try out music festivals if that is more your speed. If you attend a poetry or fiction reading, there is a very good chance you will run into women who share many of your same interests.
It also shows off your more sensitive and creative side, and women may find this charming. The beach is a fun place to hang out and spend the day. So, you are likely to run into women who are already having a good time which makes it much easier to spark up a conversation.
Additionally, since you are at the beach, you are probably there to be active, whether it is playing beach volleyball, surfing, or swimming. So, find women with these similar interests and see where it goes. These kinds of events are always a great venue for a date, but they are also a great place to meet women.
Again, it is so much easier to start up a conversation with a woman when there are shared interests and attending a certain fundraising event, or marathon shows that you at least already have that in common. If it is a charity event, then you will more than likely be surrounded by good and like-minded people. Work at a restaurant if you need to expand your social circle and improve your communication skills at the same time. Most of the girls are looking for things to do after they clock out.Female looking to hang out
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